To make sense of the intimidating sex toys market, we called in Claire Cavanah, the owner of sex shop Babeland and author of Moregasm. We quickly learned that not all vibrators are created equal. Your first step in vibe shopping is to discover where you enjoy stimulation: on your clitoris, inside your vagina (including the G-spot), or both. "In each case you want to look for ones with quality construction and body-safe materials, like silicone," says Cavanah. "Then, cast your rational thinking aside and pick the toy that tickles the sexy part of your imagination. Desire and aesthetic are deeply personal and entwined. Choose the one that speaks to you."